A note for you, Mum

This page has two parts. The white card below is what we would hand to a founding host — it is meant to be read, kept, and considered. Below that, in a quieter section, is your preparation for the conversation — the script and the answers to the questions you will be asked. That second part is for you only; it is not for sharing.

Read all of it. Tell me what feels right, what feels wrong, what sounds like you and what does not.

Thai Fondue Chinoise · guided by Thai Ambiente

Thai Suki Abend

Founding Host Tables · Four Thursday Evenings · Heiden


Noi Dörig, who has cooked at Thai Ambiente for the past twenty-two years, would like to invite you to be among the first guests of a new dining experience.

What it is

Thai Suki — a family dish we have served only to close guests for years. Thin beef and fresh prawns from approved suppliers, garden vegetables, hand-made sauces, all cooked at one shared table in a delicately spiced broth. Inspired by Thai hotpot, served in the spirit of Swiss Fondue Chinoise. One Founding Host Table per evening, on the second floor. By reservation only.

Why now

Many of you have asked, kindly and repeatedly, whether you could enjoy this dish more often. We are running four Thursday evenings as a paid pilot — to understand whether Thai Suki Abend deserves to become a regular Thai Ambiente offering, or perhaps in time something larger of its own.

The invitation

We are inviting a small group of founding hosts. Each founding host:

  • Books one Founding Host Table for one of the four evenings
  • Brings up to ten guests who would appreciate the experience
  • Shares honest feedback after the evening
  • Helps us decide whether and how to grow this

This is not an investment. There is no company to join, no shares, no commitment beyond the evenings themselves. We want first to know whether the demand is real.

The four Founding Host Tables

Each evening seats one shared table for up to ten guests. You book the table; you bring whom you want.

TableDateUp toPrice per table
No. 1Thu DD.MM10CHF 1,080–1,200
No. 2Thu DD.MM10CHF 1,080–1,200
No. 3Thu DD.MM10CHF 1,080–1,200
No. 4Thu DD.MM10CHF 1,080–1,200

Includes the full Suki menu — broth, sauces, table-side service. Drinks separate. A 50% deposit secures the table. Individual seat tickets may follow after the four founding evenings.

How it works

Before the first evening, we will confirm insurance coverage with our broker for the table format. We use staff-controlled induction equipment with no open flame, separate raw and cooked utensils, and a guided first round at every table. A trained server explains the cooking times and remains nearby throughout.

What happens after the four evenings

We will look at the numbers honestly. If demand is there, we discuss with you what comes next — monthly evenings, weekly evenings, a dedicated team, or, if it really works, a structure of its own. You will be the first to know and the first to be invited.

With warmth,

Noi Dörig

[Phone] · [Email] · Booking via Thai Ambiente

For your preparation only — not for sharing

Mum's preparation

The conversation, step by step

A coffee with one business-owner friend. Around fifteen to twenty minutes. The one-pager above sits on the table between you. This is not a presentation — it is a conversation. The friend already knows your cooking. They will be receptive.

Opening — what you say first

"Thanks for coming. You've been a friend to the restaurant for years, and you're one of the people who keeps telling me how much you enjoy our Suki when we serve it at home. I want to talk to you about doing something with that — and before I do anything else, I want your honest reaction."

Then pause. Let them respond. Don't fill the silence.

The opportunity — hand over the one-pager

"Here's what I'm thinking. [Hand over the one-pager. Wait while they read. Don't fill the silence.] Four Thursday evenings, upstairs at Thai Ambiente. One Founding Host Table per evening — up to ten guests, sold to one host as the whole table. The Suki we make at home, made for paying guests, with a trained server guiding the table. I'm calling it Thai Suki Abend — Thai fondue chinoise, guided by us."

The ask — the most important sentence

"I'm not asking you to invest. I'm asking you to become a founding host. Reserve a table for one of the four evenings. Bring two or three people you think would love it. Give us honest feedback. That's it. If after four evenings the numbers and the demand are real, we can talk about what comes next together — but only then."

This is the key line. The friend is being asked to be a founding customer, not a founding investor. That distinction protects the friendship.

Questions you will be asked — and how to answer

"Why limit it to four evenings?"
"Because I want to know honestly whether this works before we change anything. If we love it but the numbers don't, we stop. If the numbers work, we keep going. I don't want to commit you or me before we know."
"What if there's a problem during the evening — burns, an allergy?"
"Before the first evening, we confirm insurance coverage with our broker for the table format — that is done before we open the doors. The cooking is staff-controlled: induction equipment, no open flame, separate raw and cooked utensils, and a guided first round at every table. We have a first-aid kit and trained staff. If something happens, we handle it the way we handle any guest safety issue at the main restaurant."
"Will it hurt the main restaurant?"
"It's the same restaurant on Thursday evenings — but with its own service team upstairs and a different menu, so the main floor downstairs runs as normal. If it grows, we'd separate it more formally. For now, we're using what we already have."
"How much does it cost me?"
"You're booking a table, not a seat. CHF 1,080 to 1,200 for the table, up to ten guests, drinks separate. You bring whom you want — colleagues, family, clients, friends. A 50% deposit secures it. There's no other commitment beyond that."
"What happens after the four evenings?"
"Three possibilities. [Hold up three fingers, count them down.] One: it doesn't work, we stop, no harm done. Two: it works at one Thursday a month and we keep it that way. Three: it really works, and we look at making it a real ongoing thing — maybe with a separate team, maybe one day its own location. If we get to option three, the founding hosts are the first people we sit down with to figure out what makes sense — including whether you'd want to be more formally involved."
"What would you need from me beyond reserving a table?"
"Honest feedback. After the evening: what worked, what didn't, what would make you bring people back. That's worth more to us than the price of the table."

The close

"Take the one-pager home. Sit with it. There's no rush — but if you're in, the first evening is [date]. If you'd like to be the first founding host, that means a lot to us. If you have hesitations, please tell me — that's even more useful right now than a yes."

Then pause. Listen. Don't sell. Whatever they say next is the most useful information you'll get this week.

If they say yes

"Thank you. Genuinely. Can I ask one favour? Would you be willing to bring two or three people you'd want to bring along? And would you be open to me asking you afterwards if a couple of other founding hosts could join the second or third evening — with you vouching that the experience was real? That's how we'd like to invite the others."

If they say maybe

"Take a week. I'll send you a short note with the dates and the deposit details so you can show your calendar. Can we talk again next [day]?"

If they say no

"I appreciate the honesty. What's the biggest hesitation? [Listen. Don't argue.] Thank you. That's useful even if you're not in. If anything changes, the door is open."

Five tactical tips before you go in

  1. Sequence: approach the friendliest, most enthusiastic friend first. That is the champion. Get them in. Then let them help bring the next two or three.
  2. One-on-one, never a group. Group dynamics make people defensive; one-on-one lets them think.
  3. Own the silence. After each ask, don't fill it. The friend filling the silence is the friend committing.
  4. A real "no" is a gift. An early honest "no" is more valuable than a soft "maybe" that wastes a month.
  5. Don't promise upside yet. Future evenings, dedicated team, own location — these are mentioned only if they ask. Don't lead with them.